Experience Losing Your Virginity with Confidence

Having sex for the first time and losing virginity can feel like a big deal. It's challenging enough as an adolescent, just embarking on adult ways.

If you are no longer adolescent, and maybe even well on in adulthood, and have not yet, for some reason, engaged in sexual intercourse, the thought of losing your virginity can be daunting. But there is no reason to be afraid. You can enjoy saying goodbye to virginity.

Social pressures and 'virginity' - an uncomfortable mix

How big a deal your first full sexual encounter seems depends on more than just you. The culture in which you live also shapes your attitudes and responses to sexual relationships.

You may find yourself subject to all kinds of overt or covert social pressures. You may feel that, if you have not 'had sex' by a certain age, you might be seen as somehow deficient. You might even be led to think that it's 'too late' for you.

Such concerns about sex and losing virginity can lead you to hold back when finally the right opportunity comes your way. Instead of focusing on the enjoyment you might share with your partner, you can become overwhelmed with worry about how they will 'judge' you for your lack of experience.

And that can make it even harder to get going and enjoy the sexual side of the relationship.

'First times' - they just keep on coming

Getting caught up in these anxieties is a natural human response. As with all anxieties, it is important to maintain a sense of perspective. And when it comes to sex, it's important to remember that this may be the 'first time' but it's only the first 'first time'.

Most people will engage in more than one sexual relationship in their life time, and with each new partner there is a new 'first time'. A new partner is always 'virgin territory'.

The real significance of losing your virginity

This is not to say that your first sexual encounter, the one where you are 'technically' losing your virginity, is not important. Of course it is.

But it helps to put losing virginity, as such, in its proper perspective - something which is essential to sexual relations, but ultimately on about the same level of significance as getting a driver's license. The license is no indicator of what kind of driver you are!

Using hypnosis to feel confident and happy about first time sex

It's a big step from realising the truth of this in your head to feeling okay about going ahead with a sexual relationship, of course!

If you've been worrying about it for a while, your anxiety levels may be quite high, and your self-esteem may have taken a knock too. You can overcome this most easily if you take advantage of the power of hypnosis to help you.

Losing Your Virginity is an audio hypnosis session which works on the unconscious levels of the mind, beyond all the conscious worrying and fretting.

It will take you into a wonderful state of relaxation, free of all concerns, and help you literally 'restructure' your thoughts, attitudes, and emotions about engaging in sex for the first time.

Taking the time to listen and relax to Losing Your Virginity just a few times will bring about an amazing change in your feelings. You will find yourself feeling so much more confident about proceeding.

You will really look forward to the discoveries you will make about yourself and your partner, without being unduly concerned about all the details. Instead of dread, you will experience real anticipation.

Download Losing Your Virginity now and let the fun begin! You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.