You weren’t born negative. So what happened?
Negative patterns are drilled into us by people and circumstances throughout our lives. Let the gentle power of our new hypnosis course ease your unconscious mind into a more positive, happier way of seeing the world.
Let's take a second to think about that critical negative voice inside your head.
You know, the one that says:
Have you ever considered the possibility that it isn't your voice saying these things?
That it could be someone else's? A parent's, or maybe a teacher's, friend's or a partner's perhaps?
No one is born negative. I mean, have you ever seen a negative young child?
Children are little balls of inquisitive energy. They skip or run everywhere, they try to climb every tree, they'll find a rock and make it a pet, they'll play games with the most battered of toys.
No question is too silly, no outfit is too outrageous.
There's no voice in their heads telling them 'I can't'. They don't think 'I can't jump over that puddle' or 'I'll look stupid in that dress'.
So you're not innately negative
So you're not an innately negative person, you just 'caught' someone else's negativity somewhere along the line. And this means you can break your poor thinking habits and reveal the real you. The 'you' you were as a young child, when anything was possible.
Because when you look back on your life, have there been several times where you've got in your own way of success? Perhaps when you've told yourself not to go for a job, or study a certain subject.
It could be a lot smaller than that of course. You might have not gone to a party, because that negative inner voice said 'she was just being polite - she didn't really want you there.'
You might have had a connection with someone, but wormed away before they could ask for your number 'because it wouldn't have worked out anyway.' Maybe you've thought for years about doing something like learning a language, but the voice said 'what's the point?'
How different would your life be if you'd always tried instead of always thinking the worst? If you'd gone for everything within your reach and taken those opportunities, instead of imagining what could have gone wrong?
Does Mike's story of negativity and missed opportunities sound familiar?
Mike was negative. I worked with him for over a year and it was tough to resist the call of his hope-sucking negativity. But strangely I liked Mike...in small doses. You could see his attitude was increasingly weighing him down, and if he didn't become depressed then those around him might.
Mike's negativity infected others, or alienated them
You see negativity is infectious and I was at risk because I worked with the guy. For Mike, everything was "What's the point!" or "It will never work!" He loved to be proved right and hated his world view being contradicted. Good outcomes were viewed suspiciously or with barely concealed disgust because Mike, you see, had a special knack.
The hidden costs of negativity
Mike's "ability" was to give a negative spin to everything
- Winners in sport? - "just lucky", according to Mike
- Other people's decency? A cynical ploy to get what they wanted
- The smile of a child? An indication of a spoilt and molly coddled brat.
Mike had never really failed at anything, but only because he had never really tried. He was clever, but used his intellect to reinforce his sour world view. He was motivated, but only to dismantle positivity. His negative take on life became comfortable for him, a way of having certainty (that nothing good could or would happen) in an uncertain world.
When negativity is turned inwards
Being negative about things around us is one thing, but when we become negative about ourselves then we are at risk of real unhappiness and loss of potential.
Unlike Mike, many people are not comfortable with their own sense of hopelessness or chronic self sabotage. And looking back I wonder whether Mike was truly happy with his defeatism and his inability to embrace life due to his secret fears.
Becoming convinced that you're right to be so pessimistic
Mike wouldn't believe the idea that he needed to do anything about his outlook. I often reflected on Mike over the years, sometimes recognizing his voice in my head when I was tempted to give up on someone or some endeavor, believing it to be hopeless - when it wasn't really.
To protect yourself from the miserable-Mike outlook, we've created this 10 steps course to overcome negativity.
What the 10 Steps to Overcome Negativity Course will do for you
Each step on this course tackles one important facet of negative thinking in detail, with lots of thought-provoking information and tried and tested exercises to help you get an understanding of how your own thought processes and reactions have been shaped and what you can, practically, do about it.
And to ensure these new perspectives sink in, each step includes a carefully selected audio hypnosis section to help you more easily absorb and integrate new behavior patterns and helpful mental attitudes that will benefit every aspect of your life. You can relax and absorb the material -over time making it naturally yours, just like you learnt to speak your mother tongue fluently without even realizing it.
According to an ancient story, a proud and beautiful eagle once landed among a community of people who had never before seen a bird of prey.
But from the birds they were familiar with, they had formed a very clear idea of what a "proper bird" should look like. The eagle, of course, hardly measured up to their fixed notions. But no matter!
They cut its beak back, trimmed its wings to the 'proper' proportions, and even dyed its feathers to the 'right' colours.
Then they were satisfied. "Now that's what a real bird looks like!"
Take 10 Steps to reclaim the real you - before your wings were clipped.
What are the 10 Steps to Overcome Negativity?
1) Stop Negative Thinking Now.
Learn to stop negative thoughts before they start. This download will help you on an unconscious level, by showing you how to let negative thoughts drift by without taking any notice.
2) Beat the Everyday Blues
Learn to let go of pervasive worry and relax into better everyday mood. This download will show you how to form a strategy to perk up quickly when you start feeling down, and change your overall mood to a more upbeat and optimistic one.
3) Self Sabotage
Stop listening to your own negative 'hype'. This download will challenge your hurtful thoughts about yourself and stop you from blowing one bad experience out of proportion.
4) Stop Complaining
Break the complaining habit and learn to relax with imperfections and irritations. This download will turn off your 'auto-complaint' switch, letting you consciously choose your battles and to relax with the imperfections of life at other times.
5) Dealing with Disappointment
Build in flexibility to your expectations and manage disappointment and set-back gracefully. This download will teach you how to manage your expectations better so they'll be much more realistic, meaning you won't constantly be feeling let down.
6) Dealing with Guilt
Break the pattern of feeling guilty or ashamed, and take a new view. This download will help make the process of guilt clearer to you so you can refuse to be controlled by it.
7) See the best in others
Move from viewing others with cynicism and suspicion to a more realistic and sympathetic understanding. This download will develop and enhance your capacity to judge people neutrally, not negatively, until you get to know them.
8) No Regrets
Stop wallowing in your past and start learning from your experiences and move on. This download will stop you from getting so caught up in focusing on the losses and errors of your past, so you can concentrate on the present and the future.
9) Improve Your Mood
Relax deeply and cast off black moods. This download will enable your unconscious mind to bring forth a new, more relaxed, more upbeat emotion. You'll also gain perspective on whatever was making you feel bad.
10) No Excuses
Develop a deeper honesty and truthfulness with yourself and take full responsibility for what you do. This download will help you understand your own and others' motivations more clearly.
What's inside the course?
1) 10 Steps to Overcome Negativity eBook
This 128-page workbook will guide you through the ten steps, talking you through why these feelings occur and how they can be changed. It's written and illustrated by our own Mark Tyrrell and best of all it's 100% psychobabble-free. It only contains practical, easy-to-follow advice and his unique cartoons.
2) 10 nurturing hypnosis downloads to gently ease you out of negativity
Each step in 10 Steps to Overcome Negativity is supported by a specific audio download to provide a deeper, unconscious level of change and create new, more helpful patterns of behavior. The deeply relaxing audio allow you to take time out for yourself and recharge your mind and body, opening yourself to a more mindful place. All you have to do is tap play on your audio player, lay back, absorb and let your unconscious do the hard work.
3) Practical exercises
The ebook gives you the 'head' knowledge and the audios give you the 'heart' knowledge, helping you make emotional updates that change how you feel. To bring the heart and head together, we've included tried and tested exercises to tackle a different aspect of identity and self image in detail. These exercises will help you understand what has caused negativity, discover how to break out of the imprisoning bias of negativity, and embrace a new way of approaching life.
4) Progress checkers
Although there are 10 steps on this course, we recognize that there are many smaller steps to take on the journey out of negativity.
To help you assess where you are on your journey, there is a progress checker for each of 10 steps. It couldn't be simpler - you rate yourself against some statements before you start, then rate yourself again at the end of the step, usually after about 7 days. Keeping tabs on yourself like this makes you more aware of even small improvements and helps you to stay committed.
BONUS - Mindfulness Meditation training
I know what you're thinking. How on earth will this hippie-sounding bonus download help me stop negative thoughts? Isn't mindfulness meditation for Buddhist monks?
Despite its esoteric sounding name, Mindfulness Meditation is practised by people all over the world because it's a really effective way of taking a step back from the incessant flood of events and emotions that make up our lives. Mindfulness calms us down, so we can take stock and 'see the bigger picture'. (It did originate in the East but it's practised today by people of all faiths and none).
When you're stressed, it's particularly easy to get bogged down in dwelling unhelpfully on the past, or fantasizing (negatively or positively) about the future, while the present just slides by beneath your feet. Learning to focus your attention on 'right here, right now', without making value judgments about what you think, or feel, or experience, helps you to be more grounded and less likely to be overthrown by circumstances.
Chronic negativity goes hand in hand with guilt, anxiety and self-sabotage. If you can learn to 'live in the moment' a bit more, and not be overridden by emotions about everyone and everything; then those negative thoughts will transform to neutral thoughts.
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Uncover what you're really capable of
How much better will you feel on a daily basis when negativity isn't dragging you backwards all the time?
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What will you feel able to attempt once you're no longer sabotaging yourself?
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