Overcome Fear of Sex And Enjoy Intimacy

Do you find yourself tensing up and getting panicky when things get too intimate?

Is fear of sex and sexual intimacy damaging your relationship?

In an ideal world, we'd meet someone we 'click' with, get to know them, get closer, and move easily and naturally into intimacy and eventually sexual intimacy. Progress would be mutually considerate - and fun!

Sex and intimacy between two people who are attracted to each other and enjoying themselves is one of life's great pleasures and supports good mental and physical health.

Why fear of sex is so common

The reality we face is often different. We are sexual beings and sexual relationships are part of our instinctive make-up. However, our sexual quest takes place in a social context that has a huge - and sometimes far from beneficial - influence on our experience of sexual matters.

There may be some differences, but in general, human societies or groups agree that there are 'rules' regarding sexual conduct. Breaking the 'rules' or falling short of the 'expected' standard can indvidual distress and make them very fearful of sexual intimacy in future.

The 'rules' can influence us in many ways. Many societies consider that sexual behavior is governed by religious beliefs. Such 'rules' are seen as fixed, and transgressions are shameful, or do not apply to people in power.

There are also the 'rules' on sexual performance set up for us by the media and again, individuals can suffer great anguish because of their perceived inadequacy or ignorance.

These rules make it difficult to negotiate an already delicate part of our lives; if I don't behave like a porn star then am I 'frigid'?

Fear of sex may (or may not) be rooted in trauma

If you've been badly treated sexually in the past, no matter what 'rules' are considered to apply, it's understandable that you might now dread intimate encounters.  Even life events such as trying to conceive or child-birth or death of a partner may be overwhelming your sexual desires and leaving you fearful of sexual intimacy.

The reason we 'risk' sexual encounters is that we are sexual beings, and we naturally seek sexual fulfillment, even though right now, this might seem unlikely and 'not you'.  The problem right now is the fear outweighs the 'risk', and we need to address that so you can start to enjoy sexual intimacy and allow it to become a regular and enjoyable part of your life.

Hypnosis can help you conquer anxieties about sex

Overcome Fear of Sex is an audio hypnosis session developed by psychologists with wide experience in sexual problems that has been specifically crafted to help individuals overcome their anxieties about sex.

As you relax and listen repeatedly to your download, you'll notice that you

• begin to sense a general lessening of anxiety
• no longer become automatically fearful as intimacy starts or increases
• start to establish a clearer sense of what's right for you
• start to enjoy the build up of intimacy more
• feel closer to and more connected with your partner
• rediscover how very enjoyable sex can be

Download Overcome Fear of Sex and reclaim your right to be fully connected. You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app which you can access when you have completed your purchase.