Surviving stressful chapter in marriage
We all know that marriage isn't always a smooth ride. Wedding vows take this into account:
'For better or for worse..'
But when things go wrong in marriage it's easy to worry and think: 'That's
it - now the marriage is on the way out and going down hill'.
Nothing worthwhile is always easy
The best and longest lasting marriages often have tough times in the
same way that a great ship may go though storms once in a while - doesn't mean the
ship is about to sink or that the voyage is over. A good ship is built expecting bad weather.
Maybe some marriages have come to a natural end but it's also true to say that
many people give up on a marriage too soon.
Above all you both need to remember that no matter how bleak things seem it is
possible for many marriages to get back on course.
It could be that you both have external pressures such as money issues or in law
issues or child issues. Or it could be that your personalities are clashing at the
moment and you haven't yet reached compromise over certain areas.
Any voyage can have storms
When a ship is coming out of a storm it doesn't just happen instantly. There are
little signs that things are improving, the boat travels smoother, the air feels
calmer, sunlight comes through a little more.
And it's the same for your relationship. The important thing is to stay
calm and to know what to avoid and what to aim for to make relationships work.
'Surviving Stressful Chapters in Marriage' will help you see the wood
for the trees, provide you with optimism for your marriage and teach you specific
ways of thinking and feeling that will help your relationship survive for the long term.
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