Stop tearing your hair out over your in-laws and live your own life

If you have trouble getting on with your in-laws, you are certainly not alone! From time immemorial, the impossibility of living in any kind of peace with one's partner's or spouse's family, especially their parents, has been a source of woe (and much gallows humor) to all. But knowing that everyone has trouble with their in-laws is not much help to you personally in dealing with your in-laws.

There are two kinds of in-laws

If your in-laws were the understanding, well-meaning, considerate, respectful, kind sort, you wouldn't be reading this page. So they probably fall into the other category - perhaps manipulative, or interfering, or critical, or demanding, or just plain contrary. And they are 'getting your goat'. It can feel so unfair. All you want is a peaceful life with your partner, on your own terms! Why does it feel so out of reach?

Why you may not see in-law trouble coming

Of course, we can all understand that family loyalties and expectations are bound to clash when two families come together through the union of two individuals. But when we first get together with our true love, we generally underestimate the impact that in-laws will have. We tell ourselves that good intentions and a bit of tolerance will surely smooth the way with the relatives and there is nothing to worry about.

Efforts to be conciliatory with in-laws don't always work

You may even have put a lot of effort in on your side to make things go well - perhaps agreeing to things you weren't that keen on, or not standing up for yourself when criticized - only to find that things are getting worse rather than better. You may even have got to the stage where the very mention of your in-laws makes your blood boil.

Is there no way out?

It is possible to have more comfortable relations with in-laws

Well, there is no perfect answer. We can't like everybody, or be liked by everybody, and the love you feel for your spouse or partner doesn't automatically extend to their mother, their father, or their siblings. But whether you like them or not, or they like you or not, it is certainly possible to shape the relationship so that you feel comfortable dealing with them and stressing about in-laws no longer wrecks your life.

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