There's nothing like being in love. It's the most entrancing thing in the world. You have eyes for no one but
each other. Every waking moment (and sleeping moment too!) is filled with the image of the one you love. You can't
wait to be together. And when you are together it's as if a powerful magnet is pulling you ever closer. Surely there
can be no greater happiness than to be with this person for ever and ever?
What happens when the first flush of love passes
But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that the overwhelming force of your love seems to have
waned. You still love your partner. You are still committed. But a sameness can creep in, a dullness. Maybe you find those
enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate. The everyday grind pulls you out of your private little world of love. You
begin to wonder where the spark has gone.
Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary
It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early heady days of first love, you feel like you and your
partner can conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could never tire of each other's company.
So when dull days dawn, and rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to sex, it can feel as if the world is
falling. Have you made a dreadful mistake? Is it 'the end'?
Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment
Two major problems beset relationships. The first is the unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural
to 'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in
your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the
romantic movies we watch or the books we read.
Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love
The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'.
We leave the relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you that a garden left to itself will look
lovely for a while and will then gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you wouldn't want to spend
any time.
But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?
Hypnosis can help you put the spark back in your relationship
Put the spark back into your relationship is an audio hypnosis session for lovers. Using powerful hypnotic techniques and
deploying the latest psychological understanding of what makes relationships 'sparkle', this deeply relaxing session will
take you on a wonderful inner journey to the roots of your love.
As you, or you and your lover together, relax and enjoy listening to Put the spark back into your relationship, you will
rediscover what really makes your relationship special. And as you go even deeper relaxed each time you listen, you will
find yourself effortlessly becoming a true gardener of love - cherishing, nurturing, feeding, pruning and seeding the
garden of your relationship - and reveling in the beautiful blooms of love.
Download Put the spark back into your relationship and enjoy those wonderful powerful feelings of attraction once again.
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"Put the spark back in your relationship" was upgraded on Feb 27, 2009 in line with our continuous quality improvement program.
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